There’s always a sure thing that makes us feel awesome about ourselves. Whether it be a compliment that somebody says to you or putting on something that makes you look and feel sexy. Sexy is a word that has lost its oomph due to overuse, but it’s time we bring it back. It’s not crude, and it’s not something that’s taboo: it merely means exciting, appealing, desirable and intriguing. There’s no harm in wanting to be these things, especially if it’s for yourself rather than other people. But how do you get there? Find out with these three ways to help you bring your sexy back.
Surround Yourself with Positivity
It’s hard to be negative about yourself if all you are hearing are good things. This doesn’t just go for what you hear solely about you. If you apply this philosophy to everything around you, treat everything as equal and only comment on the beautiful elements in everyone, you’ll be well on your way to being a lot happier than you’ve ever been. Positivity is infectious and is one of the best viruses to be passed around.
Happy people are naturally sexy people. Those who are around them gravitate towards their appeal and interesting view on life. There are so many bad things happening in the world currently, that why wouldn’t it be a good thing to be happy with yourself and those around you? It’s a refreshing change from the day to day grind that we are currently in. Being positive about your life and where it is going to go isn’t about focusing on the bad things that revolve around them when you are down. Everybody has their down moments, some more than others. It’s up to you to pull yourself out of them or put measures in to prevent them happening altogether.
Dress for You
Too often we look for inspiration from other people. We follow advice that doesn’t apply to us or we sometimes listen to things from people who have no idea what they’re talking about. Examples: a) they have never dressed the way they’re telling people to or b) are focusing too much on body image rather than whether the person that they are dressing is happy or not. If you like something and the way it looks, wear it.
There are a lot of examples of ladies lingerie online that cater to any and all body types. In a lot of cases, there is nothing that can get you feeling the best you can like a sexy piece of lingerie. We focus so much on how we look when we’re undressed that it can be a pleasant surprise to find something that we look good in, feel confident in and can move about in freely enough that you’re not so uncomfortable you have to take it off while you’re out and about.
Be Realistic – Follow Realistic People
Social media can often warp our view on what our ideal should be. We are presented daily, with images of celebrities who have the luxury of being able to afford any cosmetic surgery that they want. Most of the time, they don’t give a second thought to going through with it. It’s commonplace for them. And something that we will never be a part of or be able to understand fully.
From our perspective, it’s something that we need to achieve – a sort of never-ending race that will keep on going and offer few pit stops for you to recover and recuperate. Filters, photoshop and a whole host of other apps and programs make it so that you can alter whatever your followers to perceive you as. This is the same for those that you follow. Try following accounts that are raw, honest and open about their experiences. People that post pictures you can relate to. We will never look flawless 24/7, and those who post unedited photos are well aware of this. Being raw and honest, they become more beautiful than they know.
Surround yourself with positive thoughts and awesome people who can perpetuate them. Dress for you, and nobody else. File any negativity coming towards you in a little mental folder in your brain that you’re eventually going to chuck in the trash and burn. People express their dislike when they haven’t got anything better to say or are in a negative mindset themselves. Pity them for a second, but offer them forgiveness forever.